Divorce and Dissolution of a Civil Partnership
Last updated: 24/04/2025
Grounds for divorce and dissolution and information on the process.
Grounds for divorce
There are two legal grounds for divorce in Scotland:
- the marriage has broken down irretrievably or
- you or your partner has obtained an interim gender recognition certificate
Irretrievable breakdown of a marriage can be:
- unreasonable behaviour
- adultery
- separation for at least one year where both you and your partner consent to divorce
- separation for at least two years where either you or your partner does not consent to divorce
Relevant date
The date of separation, known as the relevant date, is very important when it comes to divorce. It is the date when a married couple actually separate from each other. This usually means that you start living in different accommodation but you can also live separately under the same roof. Most significantly, it is the date when matrimonial property is valued for separation/divorce/dissolution purposes. It is also the date used to determine one or two years separation if this is being used for grounds for divorce.
Keep a record of this date.
Related information
For more information see:
Divorce and Dissolution of a Civil Partnership
The divorce or dissolution procedure
In Scotland, there are two main ways that you can apply for a divorce or dissolution of a civil partnership: the simplified or do-it-yourself procedure, or the ordinary or non simplified procedure. We have detailed more about each approach below.
Simplified or do-it-yourself procedure
You may be able to use this procedure if:
- your marriage/partnership has broken down irretrievably
- you and your partner consent to the divorce/dissolution and you have lived apart for at least one year
- either you or your partner does not consent to the divorce/dissolution but you have lived apart for at least 2 years
- there are no children under the age of 16
- there are no financial matters to sort out
How to apply for a divorce or dissolution using the simplified procedure
You can apply for a simplified divorce or dissolution by completing a form.
Ordinary or non simplified procedure
You will need to use this procedure if:
- your marriage/partnership has broken down irretrievably
- you have children under 16 years of age
- you and your partner cannot agree on how to divide property, finances or assets
How to apply for a divorce or dissolution using the ordinary procedure
The ordinary procedure is more complicated that the simplified procedure so you may need the help of a solicitor.
The cost of a divorce
The divorce or dissolution process can cost anywhere from around £130 using the simplified procedure to £6,000 or more if you use the ordinary procedure. How much it actually costs will depend on a variety of factors like whether there are disputes over money, property or children, whether welfare reports are required and the number of solicitors involved in the case.
Obtaining a divorce or dissolution will be more expensive using the ordinary procedure than the simplified procedure even if there are no financial or child-related matters to be sorted out.
Your solicitor will be able to advise you on all of this.
Minute of Agreement
If you and your partner can reach an agreement on financial matters, child contact arrangements and sharing of property your solicitor can draw up a formal Separation Agreement known as a Minute of Agreement. This may reduce the cost of your divorce/dissolution.
Minutes of Agreement are usually registered in the Books of Council and Session, which means they are legally binding, enforceable contracts.
Sometimes you can reach an agreement after the divorce is already underway in the courts. In this case, the settlement that is eventually reached is called a Joint Minute of Agreement.
Sorting belongings, assets and debt after separating
When you separate from your partner, sorting out your belongings, assets, and any debts is an important step. You’ll need to divide everything between you, and it might be helpful to get expert advice along the way.
Sharing Your Belongings
Over time, you and your ex-partner may have accumulated items like furniture, appliances, and personal possessions. When you separate, these things need to be divided.
Items that were given to either of you as gifts or that are clearly linked to one person should stay with the person they were intended for. However, other items may need to be shared or divided. If you’re finding this tricky, especially when it comes to valuable items, it’s a good idea to speak to your solicitor for help. Keep in mind, though, that this process can take time and might cost money.
Dealing with Debts
If you and your partner have accumulated any debt, it’s wise to talk to a debt adviser or solicitor. It’s not always clear who is responsible for what, so getting expert advice is important. A debt adviser can help you figure out which debts you’re liable for and even help you reduce what you owe.
For assistance, you can:
- contact your local Citizen’s Advice Bureau
- contact your local council
- call National Debtline Scotland on their free Helpline 0808 808 4000 open Mon – Fri, 9am – 8pm, Sat 9.30am -1pm