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I can relate to much of what Peach said.

It’s hard that my daughter is now seeing the reasons why I left the marriage and not wanting to go to see her other family because of that. It’s tough when everything lies squarely on my shoulders because her Daddy isn’t reliable but I’m lucky in that he does pay maintenance but I feel that’s because I approached child support services for that to happen. It’s hard that my Mum will offer to help out but moan about it when I do ask. It’s hard that I can’t work because my daughter needs me in holiday times because her Daddy can’t take her for more than he does and because my Mum and my daughter would not cope being together for long periods of time. It’s that I am often alone because I don’t have a partner or friends in the same situation as me.

The beauty of my situation is that my daughter and I have a great relationship and I am truly blessed to have her even if her Daddy doesn’t show his appreciation of her – I do and always will.

I hope you are both okay Marissa and Peach…..

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Hi all,

I’m 46 and have an Autistic 11 year old wee beauty. I’m in West Lothian. I understand how the loneliness feels too. Sending supportive vibes to all who are feeling that way. Myself included. 🙂

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Hey Runningmum,

I don’t have friends in a similar situation unfortunately. All my friends are busy with work/families etc, I rarely hear from them unless I instigate the text/call. They are always pleased to hear from me but I’m not keen on constantly being the person to keep in touch. I have allergies to animals which means my friends with pets are not people who I can visit, frustrating since I love animals but it is what it is.

I do volunteer and go places which’s great when I’m feeling good but makes me feel more isolated when I see couples and groups of friends out and about.

I have a good laugh with my daughter much of the time and my Mum is awesome so there are a great deal of happy things in my life. Loneliness is just a tough thing to deal with at times….

It’s great that you have face time with your buddy while cooking. That’s sweet. 🙂

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Hi everyone, good to see so many posts since last time I was here….

1. How old are your children, and name one thing they’ve done recently that made you laugh?

My wee beauty is 11 already! Being a windy vegan is always a cause for hilarity with us.

2. What led you to join the OPFS forum?

Like everyone, it’s hard and nice to feel a sense of others “getting it.”

3. It can be difficult juggling everything as a single parent, mention one thing you find difficult about being a single parent?

Not being able to work is a constant source of upset for me, although I do volunteer.

4. Mention one thing that you like about being a single parent?

I was able to have a child. She is my blessing.

5. Tell us about a hobby or something you like to do for fun or relax? It could just be something small that you are able to fit in after your children are in bed

When I’m feeling motivated it’s anything arty, when I’m feeling bushed it’s anything passive like watching T.V. Music and singing in the kitchen always makes me smile.

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Mamabear, I understand what you mean too with kids getting older and distancing themselves. My wee soul needs her own time after the stresses of school or being at her Daddys. I recognise this but it’s tough because it enhances my feelings of aloneness. I’m sure you feel the same…..? I speak with my Mum most days and friends occasionally but they work sooooooo. I’m aware many people feel this way but it’s good to hear it from you too.

Thanks for your message.

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